A will not only addresses the distribution of your assets, but through Probate can also nominate a guardian for minor children. While there are legalities to consider, it’s important to remember that you are also determining the quality of your children’s lives if you die before they reach the age of 18.
Many parents understandably have a difficult time imagining their children without them. But they need to consider many factors for guardianship, including:
Similar Values
Choosing someone you know well that shares a similar outlook, goals, values and parenting style assures you that they are raised in the manner in which you would have raised them.
Financial Stability
Raising children is an expensive task, and while your estate can address some of the expenses involved, it will give you peace of mind to know that a guardian has the resources to care for the children.
Location
Losing parents is difficult enough for children, but uprooting them after the loss can compound the issue if they must change schools, move away from other family members and make new friends during the grieving process.
Religious Values
If religion is an important part of your life, consider the religious views and values of the guardian. If you consider attending church an important part of a child’s upbringing, consider a guardian who shares that view.
Compatibility
Not only should the child and guardian be compatible, but what about the other members of the guardian’s family? Are there other children involved that need to be considered?
Once you narrow your list to a few key people, talk to them about your choice and get their thoughts about being named guardian of your child. The conversations may reveal feelings that can help you make your final decision.
Mr. Nirenstein is licensed to practice before the courts of the State of Connecticut and the United States District Court. He is a member of the Connecticut and Hartford County Bar Associations, and the Estate and Probate, Elder Law, Business Law and Real Estate Sections of the Connecticut Bar Association.
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