
In actuality, this is a very shortsighted perspective. There are different ways to proceed when you plan your estate, and the ideal approach will depend on the circumstances. Letās look at some of the scenarios that can exist and potential responses that could be part of a personalized estate plan.
Spendthrift Heir
Letās say that you have a son who has always been a very poor money manager. He has come to you in dire need of financial support on multiple occasions, and he is your only child.
You will be leaving him a sizable inheritance, but youāre very concerned about his spendthrift tendencies and pattern of poor decision-making. If you leave him a bequest in a simple will, he will receive a lump sum with no safeguards going forward.
An alternative would be the utilization of a revocable living trust with a spendthrift provision. When you establish the trust, you will be the trustee during your life, and you name a successor trustee to assume the role after your passing.
When you are gone, the trust will become irrevocable. The beneficiary, your son, would not have direct access to the assets in the trust. His creditors would āstep into his shoesā in a legal sense, and they would be in the same position, unable to reach the funds.
In the trust declaration, you could stipulate an incremental distribution arrangement. For example, you can instruct the trustee to distribute a certain amount each month. Many people will allow for larger distributions as the beneficiary grows older.
Incentivizing Fruitful Behavior
An incentive trust can be used to guide a loved one toward certain actions. A common utilization would be an incentive toward higher education. The trust could pay tuition and all living expenses while the beneficiary is a student in good standing at a college or university.
There can be added incentives for graduate school. Some people will instill a work ethic by providing a dollar-for-dollar match of money earned on the job after the beneficiary graduates.
Another scenario is an incentive trust to guide the beneficiary away from self-destructive behavior like drug abuse, alcohol abuse, or excessive gambling.
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